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How well you and your doctor or provider communicate with each other is one of the most important parts of getting good health care. Being prepared can help you make the most of your visit, whether it is in person or through telehealth. Here are some things you can do to make the most of your appointment:
- Make lists of any allergies you have and all the medicines, herbs, vitamins, and supplements you take.
- Make a list of the questions and concerns you want to talk about.
- If you are having any health problems, write down a description of your symptoms. Include information such as when they started, what makes them better, and what makes them worse.
- Ask a trusted friend or family member to come to the appointment with you.
- If your doctor or provider doesn't speak your language, call their office ahead of time and ask them to provide an interpreter.
- During your appointment, take notes about what your doctor or health care provider tells you. Or you could ask your friend or family member to take notes for you.
- Be honest during your appointment. Don't just say what you think your doctor or provider wants to hear. For example, don't say that you stopped smoking or are eating healthy if it's not true. Your doctor or provider needs to know what is really going on, so they can give you the care and treatments that would be best for you.
- If you don't understand something your doctor or provider says, ask questions until you do understand.
- Ask for written instructions if you need them.
- Learn how to access your medical records, so you can keep track of your test results, diagnoses, treatment plans, and medicines.
- Ask for your doctor's or provider's contact information and find out the best way to communicate with them.
- Find out what to do if you need more information later.
Treatments and Therapies
- 4 Tips: Start Talking with Your Health Care Providers about Complementary Health Approaches (National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health)
Related Issues
- Be More Engaged in Your Health Care: Tips for Patients (Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality)
- Living Well with a Serious Illness (American College of Physicians) - PDF
- Second Surgical Opinions (Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services) Also in Spanish
- Telehealth: MedlinePlus Health Topic (National Library of Medicine) Also in Spanish
Specifics
- Getting Health Visits in Your Preferred Language (Nemours Foundation) Also in Spanish
Health Check Tools
- How to Prepare for a Doctor's Appointment (National Institute on Aging) Also in Spanish
- QuestionBuilder App (Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality) Also in Spanish
Videos and Tutorials
- Understanding Medical Words: A Tutorial from the National Library of Medicine (National Library of Medicine)
Clinical Trials
- ClinicalTrials.gov: Nurse-Patient Relations (National Institutes of Health)
- ClinicalTrials.gov: Physician-Patient Relations (National Institutes of Health)
Journal Articles References and abstracts from MEDLINE/PubMed (National Library of Medicine)
Reference Desk
- Some Common Abbreviations (National Library of Medicine)
- Word Parts and What They Mean (National Library of Medicine)
Children
- Getting the Most From a Doctor's Visit (Nemours Foundation) Also in Spanish
Teenagers
- How Can I See My Doctor Without My Parents? (Nemours Foundation) Also in Spanish
- Talking to Your Doctor (For Teens) (Nemours Foundation) Also in Spanish
- Working with doctors and nurses (Department of Health and Human Services, Office on Women's Health)
Older Adults
- How to Choose a Doctor You Can Talk to (National Institute on Aging)
- Living with Multiple Health Problems: What Older Adults Should Know (AGS Health in Aging Foundation)
- Medical Care and Appointments (National Institute on Aging)
- What Do I Need to Tell the Doctor? (National Institute on Aging)
- What Should I Ask My Doctor during a Checkup? (National Institute on Aging)
Patient Handouts
- Make the most of your doctor visit (Medical Encyclopedia) Also in Spanish
- Shared decision making (Medical Encyclopedia) Also in Spanish
The information on this site should not be used as a substitute for professional medical care or advice. Contact a health care provider if you have questions about your health.